Do you always feel out of touch with men? 3 tricks to "lift" a man's heart and make him actively addicted

time:2023-01-29 16:29:42source:novahomeonline.com author:Conjugal life
Do you always feel out of touch with men? 3 tricks to "lift" a man's heart and make him actively addicted

Many girl fans responded: I have no topic to chat with men. I used to be able to chat all night, but now it is too much to say one more word. How should I continue? It seems that two people have been together for a long time, and this will happen, which is a normal phenomenon. The two became more and more familiar with each other and knew more and more about each other. Slowly the trivialities of life wiped out each other's freshness. The most important thing in a relationship is to have something to talk about. When there are fewer and fewer topics, conflicts can easily arise between two people. The root cause of no topic chat is not not knowing how to chat, not knowing what to do with the two people, but that the two people's chatting state is not right. Today, the genius is here to chat with you, how to create more topics with men? How about getting a man into a chat state quickly? 1. Chat on topics that men are interested in. When you chat with men, do you ask what to answer? For example, a man asks what are you doing? You reply at work; ask if you have eaten? You replied that you have eaten and so on. Talking like this will kill the sky, there is no topic to talk about, and men also think that you are not very interesting. First teach you a method, that is, continue a new topic when answering a man's question. For example, when a man asks you if you want to go to see the sunrise tomorrow, most of the replies are either ok or don't want to go. This kind of reply directly ends the next chat. Then add a new topic to this reply to keep your conversation going. For example, you can say: "I have to get up early to watch the sunrise, and I feel like I can't get up." No, I'm a little tired" as a new topic. He will suggest solutions for you, such as "wake you up, you can play and climb, or take the cable car" and so on. Then if you take the initiative to initiate a topic with a man, how can you talk more and more? Likewise, there are two topics in what you say to a man. For example, you say to a man: "I will rest tomorrow, I will check the weather, the temperature is suitable for going out tomorrow, have you decided where to go?" This sentence contains two topics, one is tomorrow's weather, and the other is where to have fun. If you just tell a man, what are you going to do tomorrow, then if the man doesn't want to go, he will reject you directly, and this is the end of your conversation. So when you communicate with a man, you must talk to him with multiple topics. The more topics you talk about, the more you will talk about. 2. Open-ended questions I just taught you to chat with multiple topics. The more topics you have, the more you will chat. Some people will say, why do you often stop chatting with men when you have a good chat? Have you ever asked yourself a similar question? For example: Are you awake? what are you doing? do I look good? If the other party asks you such a question, will you be annoyed too? Such questions are closed questions, which will make the other party feel that chatting with you is boring, and there will be no follow-up if you reply a few words. So what to do in this situation? I will teach you a trick, which is an open-ended question. It is very simple, that is, the other party has no way to reply to your question with a few words. For example, you can say: "Are you awake? It's raining today, and the weather is perfect for sleeping. I'm going to sleep again." "What are you doing? I just put on makeup, it's beautiful, right? Don't you brag about your little fairy?" The man couldn't solve such a question in a few words, so he continued to chat with you. Therefore, using open-ended questions more often will make many parties talk to you more, and when you talk, you will enter a state. 3. Declarative state Chat questions are questions after all. If you talk too much, men will not want to chat anymore, so they are destined to use declarative sentences to chat. Under normal circumstances, if you want to know what a man is doing, do you always ask him: "What are you doing? Have you eaten?" and so on. This is a question. He can answer you a few words or not, because these words do not mobilize his emotional value. But if you say to him, "There's a beautiful woman who's thinking about you, and she wants to know what you're doing now." By telling him that you're thinking about him first, and then wanting to know what he's doing, then he sees Does this kind of news make you want to go back? Although my wife and I have been together for a long time, our conversation will never end. Once when she was in a bad mood, she said to me, "Something happened today, and I'm in a bad mood. I'm so annoying." I asked her, "What happened, why are you in a bad mood." Then she would talk to her I slowly tell what is going on. She just brought me into a chat state, and I was willing to come to know her state when she was telling me things. Think about it again, do you think that you chat more with sisters than men, so when you chat with sisters, do you use more declarative sentences? For example, "The clothing store has recently put on autumn clothes, it's so beautiful, I'll show you the picture." "I recently lost my manicure, I want to do a new one, and I like a new style recently, and I think you are also very suitable. , come with me." Look, chatting in the state of this statement will make the other party chat with you more? If two people can't talk, it's not that there are not many topics, but that the other party has not entered the state of chatting. Try the above methods to make men fall in love with chatting with you!
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