In fact, it is already doomed who you will marry in this life.

time:2023-01-29 author:Big family
In fact, it is already doomed who you will marry in this life.

Text/Xia Mo

01, Preface

Love is like a huge magnet, making men and women constantly attract each other , keep getting closer. Zhang Ailing said: "Among thousands of people, you meet the person you want to meet. In thousands of years, in the wilderness where time is boundless, there is no one step earlier, no one step later, and you can only gently meet when you meet them. Say: 'Oh, are you here too?'" In this world, the most unpredictable thing is fate. No one knows what kind of people will meet in the future. Whether it is a man or a woman, love is always full of expectations. I long for the rest of my life, to meet a loved one, to accompany each other sincerely, and to love each other well. In fact, there are traces of who a person will be with for the rest of his life. A person's character, knowledge, and his attractiveness determine the path he will take in the future, and he will naturally meet someone who matches his aura in the future. A person, who will meet in this life, is actually already doomed.

02. A person's magnetic field determines who she will meet

Dong Qing said: "Everything in the world is a meeting." In life, everyone is actually All have magnetic fields. A person's magnetic field determines who and what kind of person she will meet. In the TV series "Why Sheng Xiao Mo", Zhao Mosheng took pictures everywhere on the university campus, and He Yichen entered her camera. At a glance, when two people see each other, they know that they will have a deep bond with each other in this life. Zhao Mosheng likes such a man, who is rational, excellent and handsome. He Yichen said that he would not fall in love, but he was still attracted by Zhao Mosheng's warm, lively, sunny and lovely temperament. Although the two people have different personalities and have different backgrounds and experiences, they were deeply attracted to each other at the moment they met. The two complement each other, one is firm and one is soft, one is moving and one is still, just to achieve the best tacit understanding. On the road of life, the past experience, character, growth process, as well as the dream he pursues, and the unique way of life have created a person's "magnetic field". The magnetic field attracts people, maybe people with similar interests; maybe people who are complementary; maybe people who have similar views. A person's magnetic field, on the road of life, determines what kind of person he will attract and what kind of person he will fall in love with.

03. A person's self-management determines his attractiveness

A person, what kind of person he is, what kind of person he will meet. Attraction comes from inner quality and temperament. Whether you are a man or a woman, you need to manage yourself, because only when you are better at yourself can you attract better people. If a person never manages himself, does not improve his self-knowledge, and does not manage his own image, then he will certainly not be able to attract a person who cultivates both inside and outside. If a person constantly shapes himself, his vision and pattern will screen out unsuitable people, and those who can make him see must be people who are more in line with his concepts. The attraction in love actually comes from the temperament and character that you exude from yourself. Therefore, in love, if you want to meet a good person, you must learn to improve yourself and learn to manage yourself. Because only when you are good can you truly meet better people. When you meet a better person, you can meet a better marriage. In this way, in the future, can also harvest more happiness. Those who never improve themselves, never manage themselves, or manage themselves, are often let down by love. In the end, on the road of life, they choose to live alone and live in grievances and pain.

04. A person's ability determines his choice

What kind of circle a person is in is actually determined by his ability. Each person's own ability is subtly setting a class for himself. For example: singers are more willing to be friends with people who can sing and write lyrics; people who love to drink, prefer to have friends with wine and meat; people who love to study, prefer to communicate with people who are engaged in academics...A person's hobbies, hobbies, Your goals, as well as your career, will affect the kind of people you meet. And a person's ability will also determine what level of people you meet and fall in love with. A person, who has continuously improved his ability, will stand at a higher level and choose excellent people to walk with him. If you are better and stand taller, there will be more appreciative and admiring eyes cast on you. So, if you can't find someone you love, don't rush to find them, but focus on self-improvement. When you are dazzling enough, there are people who have their own fate, only for you. Going around in circles, it is better to walk your own way stably, keep growing, and you will encounter better opportunities. The more capable a person is, the more opportunities he has to choose.

05. Summary

On the road of life, love will always collide with you in a specific opportunity. Shakyamuni said: "No matter who you meet, he is the person who should appear in your life, not by chance." On the road of life, please work hard to improve yourself and make yourself better. Because, only when you know more people, the more you will understand that all the people who enter your world are determined by the path you choose to take. In love, we are always attracted to people who are compatible with each other. If you want to have a good home, then your own strength must be strong enough. Falling in love is easy, staying together is difficult. If two people want to be with each other for a long time, they must constantly improve themselves and develop more tacit understanding between each other. On the road of life, don't be too anxious to find your other half, work hard to complete your life plan and make yourself stronger. If you are fragrant, butterflies will come. -END- Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, an emotional writer with over 1 billion people on the Internet, a manager of a happy woman, focusing on emotions, gender, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.
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