There is also a chain of contempt when giving birth to a child. Caesarean section means that you have never given birth? There is no sense of superiority, they are all fighting for their lives

time:2023-01-29 04:04:48source:novahomeonline.com author:Daily life
There is also a chain of contempt when giving birth to a child. Caesarean section means that you have never given birth? There is no sense of superiority, they are all fighting for their lives

Text / Good Pregnant Sister Two days ago, a friend in the mother group complained: I took my child downstairs for a walk, and a pregnant mother asked me whether I had a natural delivery or a caesarean section. I said that because the fetal position is not correct, it can only be delivered by caesarean section. Originally, I wanted to share my own experience, but they said, "Then you can feel much more relaxed. The caesarean section feels like you have never given birth, and it is not as good as a natural birth. When I get there, I will choose a natural birth no matter what." Listen. At this point, I was very upset, and I was just about to argue a few words. The pregnant mother went on to say, "Some people choose to have a caesarean section because they don't want to suffer because they can give birth by themselves. It's just too selfish. The mother who gave birth is the greatest. I heard that the pain during a natural birth is comparable to breaking twenty ribs at the same time. ." I heard before that there is also a chain of contempt for giving birth, and caesarean section ranks at the bottom. I didn't believe it at the time, but now I've finally opened my eyes. I don't understand, why do women make things difficult for women? Where does the superiority come from? Having a child, no matter which way, isn't it all about fighting for your life? I took a look at the comment section, and one of the comments really made people laugh: "What's the matter, my mother-in-law also said that there is no need to confine the child for a caesarean section. After ten days of the caesarean section, she slapped her ass and left, and let me take care of it myself. Myself and my children." Tsk tsk, I can only sigh that the ignorant is fearless, and the summer bug is indescribable. A caesarean section is really not as easy as they thought. It is not as simple as slashing a knife on the belly to take the child out. Caesarean section during production requires layer-by-layer incision of the skin, subcutaneous fat, anterior rectus sheath, muscle layer, peritoneum, uterine serosa, myometrium, and puncture of the wool follicle. Some people might say that, anyway, if you need anesthesia, even if it's on the 8th floor, you won't feel much. Of course not, caesarean sections are generally under local anesthesia. During the operation, the pregnant mother was awake. Although there is no pain, a tugging, tearing and pressing sensation can be clearly felt. This taste is really an indescribable discomfort. Moreover, some pregnant mothers have an anti-anaesthetic constitution, and anesthetics do not work for them. At that time, it is really going to suffer. I heard a mother say that she is the most unlucky caesarean section. After local anesthesia, the effect was not very good, and the child was almost delivered by caesarean. The piercing pain made her feel like a century had passed. After giving birth, after the catheter is removed, the mother needs to go to the toilet. It is a simple action to outsiders, but it is painful for the mother, like suffering. Obviously, the hospital bed is only two meters away from the toilet, but every time I go to the toilet, it is like a business trip to a distant frontier. No way, it hurts too much. Every step you take is painful enough to make you doubt your life. And because there is no force, two or three people are often required to support it. In addition to the pain of getting out of bed, sometimes I don't even dare to cough or laugh. Otherwise, you will feel a burst of pain at the incision. It can be said that a caesarean section is really not at all easier than a natural birth. If you can give birth naturally, no one is willing to go to the knife for nothing. In the end, I want to say that whether it is a caesarean section or a natural birth, for mothers, they are all in the gates of hell. Don't care about other people's opinions, and don't overly believe that natural birth is better than caesarean section, or that anesthesia will have a bad effect on the child. After all, keeping you and your baby safe is the most important thing.
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