Zhang Tianai broke up: People who only say "love you" in their diaries should say goodbye as soon as possible

time:2023-01-29 08:21:30source:novahomeonline.com author:Relationship
Zhang Tianai broke up: People who only say "love you" in their diaries should say goodbye as soon as possible

Everyone should have seen the hot searches in the past two days. First, Zhang Tianai was caught in tears at the event and was captured by the camera. Many people were concerned about what happened to her, and they all speculated. Last night, she broke the news of a video on Weibo. The video has a huge amount of information and many slots, which suddenly set off a hot search. The video is mainly about Zhang Tianai's ex-boyfriend Xu Kaicheng's self-report, expressing three points: first, during the relationship between Xu and Zhang, he cheated on another girl; second, Xu used this as an excuse to refuse to announce his relationship; third, Xu cheating was not Once, after listening to the video, the repeat offender only felt that there were so many flaws and there was nowhere to complain. By the way, based on the video, I summarized three people who deserve our respects as soon as possible. I hope girls can stay away from scumbags. 1/ A person who can only say "love you" in his diary, forget it One person does what we both want to do. The central idea is probably: love can't be announced, but I can say "I love you" in my diary. What's the point? Teacher Lu Qi said in the course that "informing and confirming" is a very important thing in love. The two are in love, and they have to announce their love, which is respect for everyone. But there are some people who hide and hide everything, and just don't want to talk about it. We have seen many such examples during the live broadcast. The man is trying hard to pursue the woman. When it is a date, a gift, and a confession, the woman asks, what is our relationship? The man said, of course, a couple. But the couple's identity in the man's mouth is known only to the two of them, and has never been announced to the public. As a result, the man was only trying to cheat money, and when the money was in his hand, all the good things he used to pursue her were gone. There are also couples, but he has never posted about his daily love life in the circle of friends. He finally posted it once. The copywriting is also vague and can be seen in groups. Only later did I find out that he lied to his girlfriend that he was unmarried and had no children, but he was married and had children. Telling everyone that we are in love is the least courageous thing. Because when the relationship is good, it can make people feel happy to announce this event, it does not require you to overcome any difficulties or make any sacrifices. But some people, "I keep my love for you in my heart" and "I write my love for you in my diary", say this over and over again, but they don't even have the courage to announce it. How many such people are there? Really? 2/ A person who can allow himself to be helpless, forget it. He heard an example during the live broadcast. Both men and women have been in love for more than ten years, from the campus to the workplace. After getting married and having children, the woman accidentally heard the voice of a woman on the man's side on the phone, and then found unknown traces on the man's underwear. The woman asked the man to question him, and the man made no secret of the affair. At the same time, he said that he was all acting on the spot. The other party's height, appearance, education and personality were not as good as the woman's, and he would not divorce the woman for this matter. It's not "I made the decision, but it's not my fault, and I apologized, so you have to forgive me". What rogue logic? ! People have ideas, morals, and bottom lines. These thoughts, morals, and bottom lines control your own desires. If you can’t control yourself, you won’t do things you shouldn’t do, things that will hurt people, and things that are difficult to end. Everyone is an adult, and no matter how "independent" it is, it is you who make the decision. All the "involuntarily" are excuses for his low self-control and lack of responsibility. 3/ A man who keeps saying "I want to be a real man", or forget it. What is a real man? Be loyal to your lover, be responsible to your family, be able to manage a relationship seriously, take on the responsibilities that you should take, instead of taking love as a pastime. Have plans for the future and plan you into his life. Knowing restraint, knowing sacrifice, knowing how to give, respecting and supporting your partner, having dedication and planning for the family, and thinking that taking time to maintain a stable and good relationship is a responsibility, not a shackle. He doesn't need to prove how many girlfriends he has made, the status of his partner, the atmosphere of the family, etc., can prove whether he is a good man. And a person who keeps saying that he wants to be a real man generally does not have the above characteristics. Finally, I want to say that there are only one and countless times of derailment, and the harm of derailment to a woman will always be infinite. You don't have to say "I'm sorry" to be forgiven. Every time a woman forgives, it is not because the hurt in her heart is erased, but she just can't let go of this relationship and can't bear you. Please don't use their softness to hurt them. Love is a positive word, please don't let them talk about love because of you.
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