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How to be the only one in a man's heart? It's not about how "good" you are, but how "close" you are When a woman enters a relationship, the most concerned question is: what kind of woman does a man like? How to be the only one in a man's heart? You may think that you are fair-skinned, beautiful, young, rich and independent, and you are the ideal woman in a man's heart. Although it makes sense, these characteristics are common to many women, and a woman with personality can be more unique in a man's heart. Every woman wants to be favored by a man in a relationship and be unique to a man. It has to be said that men's focus is more on their appearance and body, but there are women who can conquer men with their souls and become irreplaceable in men's hearts. Today, the genius is here to talk to you about how to become irreplaceable in a man's heart? 1. Understand the needs of men At the beginning of a relationship, men are first attracted by appearance, then emotionally, and finally spiritually. So in the early stages of a relationship, women dress up carefully every time they go on a date, so that men's eyes can't be separated from themselves. This is the initial attraction, only in the period of passionate love. After being together for a long time, the needs of men have changed, and they are more emotional and spiritual. What they need is someone who can truly understand him, understand him, and admire him. For example, when a man is under a lot of pressure and has work problems, give him encouragement and tell him: "Although I have encountered some small problems now, I know that you can overcome the difficulties. I believe in you." Suppressing and complaining: "I knew you couldn't do it, you better not do this." And so on. Encouraging a man and believing in a man will make the man think that you can understand him, and conversely, it will only make the man think that you don't understand him at all, and he doesn't want to communicate with you anymore. I have a student. She often shows her affection in her circle of friends, how good her husband is, and often praises her husband, such as cooking for her, buying her bags, taking care of her in various ways, etc. In the eyes of my students, her husband is her idol. Every time they take a photo, they look at her husband with admiration and often praise her husband. They have two children now, but they are still very affectionate, and simple praise has become a conciliator for managing feelings. A good marriage requires the joint management of two people, thinking about what he wants from the other's perspective, and meeting each other's inner needs. 2. Keep a sense of mystery A woman who knows how to keep a sense of mystery will make men follow. Because men are born hunters, they like to explore those unknown things. The more mysterious and uncontrollable things are, the more they can arouse their curiosity and want to find out, to satisfy their inner desire to conquer. For those who have already got their hands, they have no curiosity, and they can't pique their interest, and they will naturally become indifferent. Some women will ask: I am a very simple person, I can understand those things. After being together for a long time, what else do men not understand? Even knowing when I'm going to the toilet, what's the mystery? Then you can try to make yourself mysterious. When talking to a man, give him a little space for his imagination and make him want to explore you. For example, you can say to him: "Go home early in the evening, I have been waiting for you in bed for nothing, so that you can experience a little different." After saying this, doesn't the man's curiosity come up? Your mind is full of various pictures, and then it's up to you to play. Be the deep well in a man's heart and make them want to explore you all their lives. 3. Using Barnum's Words What is Barnum's Words? It is to use some empathic words to give the other party a feeling of "you understand me very well". Everyone knows the constellation, right? Do you believe in astrology? Do you think that what the constellation says every time is very accurate, this is similar to Barnum's words. The operation method of this technique is very simple. You can first describe his character and add some words that resonate with emotion. For example, if a man is a company manager, you can say something like: "You look strong, but there are times when you are vulnerable, and I hope someone can really understand you." Saying this makes the man feel very involved. Feeling, speaking of my heart. Of course, Barnum can also be used to talk to men in daily life. For example, if a man is in a down mood at night, you can say to him: "I know how you feel now, I've been in this situation before, and I understand you very well." Whether you really understand him or not , but when you say these words, you have already established a "soul mate" identity, making him feel that you are the one who understands him best and becomes the only one in his heart. Love is mutual, and a good marriage is also managed together. If you want to be irreplaceable in the other person's heart, you must read more about the other person's heart and understand a little male thinking. Are you still afraid that men won't love you? |