Some people say that if you don't have children in your life, you will be pitiful when you get old. Do you agree with this statement?

time:2022-12-08 10:18:17source:novahomeonline.com author:Life of the elderly
Some people say that if you don't have children in your life, you will be pitiful when you get old. Do you agree with this statement?

In real life, in addition to a large number of leftover men and women "bachelors", there are also many singles, unmarried families, "DINK" families, infertile families and so on. All in all, it is obvious that these people have no children of their own in this life. Some people say that if a person has no children in his life, he will be very pitiful when he grows old. So, do you agree with this statement? Objectively speaking, whether a person is pitiful when he is old has a certain relationship with whether he has children, but the relationship is not very big. Because as an ordinary person, when you get old, no matter whether you have the care and service of children, to varying degrees, there will be pitiful things. For example, old age, inconvenient legs and feet, even bedridden, unable to take care of themselves, etc. Even if there are children who are filial by their side, their quality of life will be greatly reduced, and sometimes they even seem to live without dignity. Psychologically speaking, All will experience some misery. There was an old saying in the past, called "raising children to prevent old age", which was about this issue. There will always be a day when people get old, and most people will have a period of illness or extreme old age before they die, commonly known as "the time when they can't move". It's time to make the most of it. However, according to the current concept, it seems that some people think that this sentence is a bit outdated, and you can spend your old age in peace without children. As long as you arrange your old age well, having children is not necessarily a happy old age. Of course, if you have no children in your whole life, and without the help and comfort of your relatives when you are old, you will definitely have a feeling of loneliness and compassion in your heart. All things in the world are conserved, and for any matter, there are gains and losses, and the same is true of whether there are children. If you have never been married or have no children in your life, relatively speaking, in the first few decades of your life, you will live a relaxed and free life, even a little more unrestrained, without any burden or responsibility for raising and educating children, and the pressure of life is relatively lighter. . But after getting old, due to physical and other reasons, when gradually aging, you will become lonely and lonely because you don't have children's care and care, and because you don't have relatives by your side. Most people have children, and they are full of children and grandchildren, and the population is thriving. However, if one’s own abilities and conditions are not good enough to train and educate children well, and if you just want to rely on your children to provide for your own retirement in the future, I am afraid that the effect and quality of life in old age will not be very good. Moreover, nowadays young people are under a lot of pressure from work and life, and they are also very busy. Most of them are out of town. They also have their own small families and their own children, so it is true that they want to take care of their elderly parents. It's a more difficult thing. Wouldn't it be a bit regrettable and pitiful if the children could not take care of the elderly at all? Maybe we will talk about money again. Some people say that it is not pitiful to be old. The key is to see if there is money in your pocket. Thinking about it carefully, this is not unreasonable. Although money is not a panacea, it can at least solve many practical practical problems. For example, even though there are no children in old age, but with enough money and conditions, you can still arrange your old-age care properly and advantageously. Of course, if you don’t have money in your hand, and you have to rely on your children to support you, some of you may only be able to live in a sloppy way. Sometimes due to the many inconveniences in life, even if you are a little pitiful, you have no choice but to do so. Getting married or not, forming a family, having or not having children, whether or not to have children, are all destined to be a different life after all. As a natural law of human beings, having children is a normal thing, a continuation of life, an inheritance from generation to generation. If there are no children, or there are fewer and fewer children, not only is the individual's life incomplete and imperfect, but also There will be a serious lack of human family affection and family happiness, and more importantly, the country and human beings will have problems along with it, and that may not only be a matter of pity after old age. What do you think? Personal opinion, comments are welcome, stay tuned.
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