Should I bring my kids to the wedding?

time:2023-01-29 15:42:10source:novahomeonline.com author:Life of the elderly
Should I bring my kids to the wedding?

In everyone's emotional life, especially when it involves major events in marriage and family, some tangled and confusing, or even more difficult things and problems often arise from this, such as remarriage, it will directly Associated with the remarriage of both parties or the children of one of the parties. So, when you remarry, should you bring your children to your remarriage wedding? It stands to reason that remarriage can be regarded as a more important event in life, so it is reasonable and reasonable to bring your own children to attend the remarriage wedding, and it should be brought. Because remarriage is to form a new family again, and the child is a member of this new family, and everyone will live together under the same roof, so especially the older children, if they can get their understanding and even support And blessings, then it is a very gratifying and happy good thing for the remarrying self and the whole new family. One of the most feared obstacles to remarriage is sometimes the objection of children, especially when the children are older. Therefore, if your children not only do not object, but can show a very understanding and friendly attitude, and can support their remarriage, then the remarriage will become a logical and a matter of course in the emotional entanglement and confusion of the children. Since the child is also very happy, or the child is still young and ignorant, then taking the child to attend the remarriage wedding is something that should be done. Of course, if one's own children hold an attitude of disapproval of their remarriage from the very beginning, or even strongly oppose it, perhaps they really shouldn't bring their children to the remarriage wedding. Otherwise, in addition to causing greater psychological damage to the child, it may also bring unnecessary trouble to yourself or the entire wedding. If the child has never figured it out, and has great emotions, he may do unexpected things. If he says something that shouldn't be said at the wedding scene, or does something that shouldn't be done, everyone will be confused. If it is unpleasant or unable to step down, it is really inappropriate. It can be seen that when remarrying, whether to bring children to the wedding or not should be determined according to the specific situation, rather than generalization. That is to say, it is necessary to take into account not only the feelings of adults, but also the feelings of children. In a word, one principle must be well grasped when attending a remarriage wedding with or without children, that is, both adults and children can be happy. If the child is reluctant, or even not friendly or disgusting, then you must not take the child to the remarriage wedding. Therefore, whether or not to bring children to the wedding of remarriage is a relatively important matter for both men and women who remarry, so it must be handled very seriously, otherwise it may not be a matter of whether or not to bring children to the wedding. The problem is, but it is necessary to consider whether the child will make a big noise at the wedding scene, causing a very embarrassing situation, or even a bad ending. What do you think? Personal opinion, comments are welcome, stay tuned.
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