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Man sued 3 times for divorce from wife suffering from uremia: marriage is very realistic, human nature is selfish 01 You must have heard a sentence: "Husbands and wives are birds of the same forest, and they will fly separately when disaster strikes." This sentence comes from Feng Menglong's "Jing Shi Tong Yan", which has been passed down to this day and is still particularly applicable to today's society. When two people get married, it seems that they have become a family. When there is no disaster or disaster, maybe they can help each other and take care of each other, but once there is a catastrophe, they still take care of themselves. You are the most important thing. Especially women, you must remember this sentence. You must not give everything blindly in marriage. You must know that if something happens, in marriage, men are more selfish than women. There is a news on the Internet: The man sued three times for divorce from his uremia wife. According to relevant media reports: Recently, in Chongzuo, Guangxi, the Guangxi High Court released a typical case. In 2007, Chen and Wang registered their marriage. At the beginning of 2013, his wife Chen suffered from uremia, and her husband Wang also paid for the treatment. cost. His wife's kidney transplant cost about 400,000 yuan, which is paid by her parents and friends. After the operation, his wife Chen did not recover and required long-term drug treatment. The husband and wife are separated. The husband then filed for divorce twice, but the court did not support it. In 2022, the husband sued for divorce for the third time. The court held that the relationship between the two parties had broken down, and the divorce should be granted according to the law. However, Chen suffered from uremia and required high treatment fees in the follow-up. It was decided that Wang should pay Chen a living assistance fee. 100,000 yuan. In view of Chen's difficult life, the court finally decided to grant Chen a judicial aid of 50,000 yuan. Please look at this case carefully. Chen's 400,000 operation fee was not borne by her husband Wang, but by Chen's parents, relatives and friends. Marriage is very real at some point, you can share weal and woe with him, but he may not be able to do it. We've all heard similar vows at weddings: We voluntarily become husband and wife, and from now on, whether it's good or bad, poor or rich, healthy or sick, I'll love you and protect you for the rest of my life, until we all grow old. No matter what difficulties you encounter, I am willing to bear the brunt and solve all difficulties for you. But what is reality? You are sick, and he may not even be willing to pay for the surgery. After all, it is your own parents who care about you the most. When you finally finished the operation and didn't fully recover, and there were still sequelae, he thought of suing you for a divorce, and sued 3 times in a row, it was absolutely necessary to divorce. The wife finally broke through the gate of hell, but ironically, the so-called pillow person thought about separating and divorced from her, and didn't even take care of her. Really chilling, is this the marriage we want? It's okay when you don't encounter anything, but if something happens, that person will abandon you. 02 Saying this, some people may refute me and say that it is not normal for a husband to sue for divorce? After all, his wife is sick, and if this matter is put on your women, you may not be able to share the suffering together. What I want to tell you is that women are really more affectionate and righteous than men. As long as the wife is kind, once the husband is sick, the woman will shoulder it with them. If nothing else, just my relatives. My uncle's third son suffered from uremia when he was a few years old, and the third cousin's uremia was also caused by himself. At that time, my second uncle was in Zhengzhou, and my second aunt was working in a hospital. After my third cousin fell ill, he had to go to a large hospital in Zhengzhou for a kidney transplant. Taking medicine, and it is equivalent to a waste person, and can no longer do any heavy work after that. In the past few years, hundreds of thousands of dollars in rural areas are "astronomical", what should I do? Relatives and friends crowdfunded, and our family also contributed money. Fortunately, my mother and their relatives have more relatives, so they still collected the money. My husband is sick and I have three children. The burden of the family will fall on my third sister-in-law. My third sister-in-law is a very beautiful woman. She didn't abandon my cousin. Before my cousin got sick, she was very naive and she didn't care. Instead, she took good care of him. Now, more than ten years have passed, and my third cousin is alive and well, which is all thanks to my third sister-in-law. Their three children have also married and started their own businesses. My third sister-in-law is now living a better life, but it has not been easy for her to survive the past ten years. She has suffered a lot. Do you have to leave your partner alone when they are sick? My third sister-in-law not only took the responsibility with him, but also raised all three children. After the operation, the third cousin had a rather odd temper. He was always angry with the third sister-in-law, but she didn't leave him and took care of him without any regrets. My third cousin is almost 60 years old now. He is still taking medicine. All three children are older, so he can help share some of the burden, otherwise the third sister-in-law will die. Is human nature selfish? In marriage, we have to admit a reality: women are often more affectionate and righteous than men, and they are stronger, able to endure hardships and bear things. 03Marriage is very realistic. Human nature is selfish. Men are actually emotionally fragile animals at some point. Many men cannot even take care of the most basic life after marriage. We have seen many women who lived alone and never remarried after the death of their husbands, but we rarely saw men who stopped marrying after the death of their wives. Except for the old bachelors, who really have no money to find a wife, basically men will marry again. This is the reality, many men are like this, they can't live without women. We have also seen many husbands who never leave their wives to take care of them when they are sick, but we rarely see husbands who never leave their wives when their wives are sick. There may also be men willing to stick with their wives, but very few. Having said so much, I want to remind women: in marriage, love yourself well, you are the most important thing, you are so affectionate to him, you have paid so much, but in the end, what do you get? You will be willing to take care of him when he is sick, but when it is your turn to be sick, he will abandon you. Men always say women are realistic, but seriously, in marriage, men are more realistic than women. It's really not easy for a woman. You have to take on too much in a marriage. Love yourself. You are the most important thing. Today's topic: If your partner is seriously ill, will you stay with them? Welcome to leave a message. - END - ★ Author: YIBAO; emotional original author, writing warm emotional things in this world. |