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Counting down the marriages of the giants in Fujian in recent years, I found the law of the marriage of giants: strong alliances 01 Living in Xiamen, he is no stranger to Septwolves and Xtep. Recently, the news of "Xtep little princess and seven wolves tied the knot" spread on the Internet. Judging from the photos exposed on the Internet, the girl is wearing a bright yellow dress and long wavy hair, and her appearance is very outstanding; while the boy is wearing a black suit, tall and handsome. They are the engaged male and female protagonists, Zhou Liyuan and Ding Jiamin, the son of Zhou Shaoxiong, the founder of Septwolves, and the daughter of Ding Shuibo, the founder of Xtep. No matter in terms of family background or appearance, their marriage can be described as a perfect match, a pair made in heaven. Some netizens even commented very exaggeratedly: Isn't this a naked romance novel brought into reality? There is no overbearing president who falls in love with Cinderella, and there is no sparrow flying on the branch to become a phoenix. The real marriage of a wealthy family should be a powerful alliance. I advise some girls who like to watch idol dramas to stop daydreaming. You must know that rich people will eventually get married, and the law of marriage between rich and powerful families must be strong alliances. I used to sneer at this, until I saw the introduction on the Internet about the big marriage of Fujian giants in recent years: the eldest son of the seven wolves married the daughter of the eight horse tea industry; the little princess of Xtep married the second son of the seven wolves; The eldest daughter of Xtep married the son of Jiumu Sanitary Ware; the eldest son of Bama Tea married the daughter of Anta; the daughter of Bama married the chairman of Gaoli Group. See no, their marriage is a strong alliance. There are many office buildings of famous Fujian enterprises in the Guanyin Mountain area in Xiamen. I used to pass by Xtep, Septwolves and Anta when I was working nearby. These rich second-generation have a wonderful relationship, of course, this is just a big dream before going to bed. I naively thought they were competitors. I didn’t expect that they were already in-laws. If I dared to look around, all the famous companies in the Guanyin Mountain generation might be relatives and have a close relationship. Counting down the big marriages of the Fujian giants in recent years, don't make unrealistic dreams anymore. You must know the law of the marriage of giants: strong alliances are king. 02The marriage of a wealthy family is also quite introverted. At first, I really didn't believe it, until a reader said to me: "Most of our family-owned businesses in the Zhejiang area will not choose foreigners for their marriages. Some people still have unrealistic illusions. , say that the small bosses of private enterprises in Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai will recruit their daughters and sons-in-law, and then some people think that they may be valued and can reach the peak of life through the shortcut of marriage. Don't think like that, now the more More and more people with family businesses have come to understand that even if they don't have a son, they won't hire a son-in-law from another place, and they will choose someone with similar family conditions." Does love matter? Compared with love, the real interests are the most important. Besides, who said wealthy families have no love? The two people grew up in a similar environment, they had the same circle, and they were both more likely to receive a good education. They could easily resonate with each other in spirit. Their values and living environment were the same, so they should be able to chat more easily. Bar. Their marriage will also be stronger because they have their own families behind them. Rich people can be smart, they are the best at calculating profits and losses. Regarding the marriage of wealthy families, there is a sentence in "A Dream of Red Mansions" that expresses it most thoroughly: everyone is connected with relatives, every death is perished, and every honor is honored. Support cover, all take care of. Their marriage is not only as simple as marriage, but also the integration of two family businesses. With this level of in-law relationship, it is conducive to becoming bigger and stronger together. The ancients paid attention to the marriage of the right family. The marriage was decided by the parents' orders and the matchmaker's words. The parties to the marriage had no freedom to choose a mate. At that time, the main factor that parents and matchmakers considered in choosing a mate was "the right match". When people choose a mate, they always tend to look for people of the same class, which in layman's terms means a circle. The reason is that people in the same circle have similar three views, and their aesthetic standards and living habits are also relatively close, so they are more likely to have a common language. In the book "Li Yinhe Talks About Love", it is said that people of the same class as themselves are more likely to have feelings, fall in love, and maintain feelings. The right match not only allows for the smooth development of love, but also often guarantees the quality of intimacy. Those men and women who try to cross the class through the shortcut of "marriage" should wake up. Do you think the rich people in reality are really so easy to deceive? Are they smart, so they won't let you step on them and use them as stepping stones? 03 When I was in college, I really thought that it would be great if I could marry a rich man in the future, but the question is why do rich people like you? Are you from a privileged family? Are you good looking? Are you in good shape? Are your qualifications and abilities outstanding? I have a very clear set of evaluation criteria for myself. Of course, I did not find a rich man to marry, but found a man with similar family conditions. Like me, he was a college student from the countryside. Still a scholar. Since it is impossible to marry a rich man, then find a better man like you, work hard together, and rely on yourself, you can still buy a car and buy a house in the city. As long as the two are together, you will be able to live the life you want to live. Now, it has been ten years since I fell in love with him and got married. Of course, I can't compare with those rich people, but we are a family with a car and a house in Xiamen, and we can live a good life. My marriage is quite hard, because I have to rely on myself to be self-reliant, and if I want to live a good life, I can't rely on my parents and can only rely on myself. Of course, I also complained about him, but I also clearly know that he is my best choice. When we combine, no one will look down on the other. We respect each other, understand each other better, and rely on each other. Our marriage will be stronger. In fact, my husband and I’s marriage is also “matched”. We have the same family background, the same growing environment, and the same three views. We are both relatively independent people, so after we get married, we can not have any plans for our parents. We all feel that our parents It is not easy to raise us to study for us. Happiness in marriage depends on our own creation. Therefore, people still need to be down-to-earth, and don’t expect that you can change your destiny through “marriage”. The only one you can trust is yourself. happiness. Of course, there will also be some people whose family conditions are not good. They are married to wealthy families, but have you noticed: they all have very special and outstanding points, and they are all better than others. As we all know, the combination of Guo Jingjing and Huo Qigang, Guo Jingjing is a world champion, she has turned herself into a wealthy family through her own efforts, she is a strong person herself, and her marriage with Huo Qigang is also a strong alliance. It doesn't matter if your family background is not good, but do you think you are capable? Do you have a special talent? Not only the rich in Fujian, but also the rich in Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai. The rich have always been smart, and they know what kind of marriage will be more beneficial to them. People, you should rely on yourself. Instead of dreaming to change your destiny through marriage, it is better to enrich and improve yourself. It is better to rely on yourself. Relying on yourself is the kingly way. A truly stable marriage is "a strong alliance of the right family". Believe it or not. Today's topic: How do you view those who try to change their destiny through marriage? Welcome to leave a message. - END - ★ Author: YIBAO; emotional original author, writing warm emotional things in this world. |