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What is a husband and wife? Please listen to the old man's words: the common meal is coarse cloth, knowing the cold and the heat is a husband and wife The human husband and wife marriage system, especially the monogamous marriage family, has brought relative stability of life, relative harmony of society, and relative civilization of the times to people on the whole earth. With the development of the times, hundreds of millions of families in our country have become prosperous, while the relationship between many couples has become fragile. So, what exactly is a husband and wife? As the old saying goes: "A common household meal is rough and clothed, and it is a husband and wife who know the cold and the heat", which is still very profound. What exactly is a husband and wife? A man and a woman, both of whom have the good desire to pursue a happy life, voluntarily choose to live together for the sake of common physical and mental health and the continuation of future generations, and become a legal marriage through legal procedures, are called husband and wife. Husbands and wives are such a beautiful form of life that only human beings, such advanced emotional animals, can have the conditions. A pair of biologically mature men and women, united by marriage as a bond, and each do their best to help and fulfill each other's needs unconditionally, and play a major role in life in the family. Thus, a man is called a husband, and a woman is called a wife. Judging from the concept and definition of husband and wife, both husband and wife, whether male or female, have the main purpose of living their ideal and happy life before marriage, and after marriage, regardless of the situation, they should do their best Its ability, in order to create a better marriage and family, work hard and sweat, especially to help and achieve each other unconditionally, and work together for the sake of the family. It can be seen that whether it is poverty or wealth, whether it is disease or disaster, husband and wife must be of one mind, considerate each other, and face it together. An old saying goes: "Everyday food is rough and clothed, knowing the cold and knowing the heat is a husband and wife", which brings back the time to a long time ago, when people's life was still very difficult, and they could not get enough food and clothing at all. In order to maintain the most basic marriage and family life, as long as you can have three meals a day, and you can wear a set of coarse clothes, you will be satisfied. As a husband and wife, they can know each other's cold and heat, understand each other's hard work, joys, sorrows and joys, so that they can take care of each other, that is, the husband and wife with the most simple love. It can be seen that a loving couple who get along better is not only able to share happiness, but also to be able to share hardships. Many people are very puzzled: why in the past poverty era the relationship between husband and wife was relatively stable and the relationship between husband and wife was good, but in the current era of wealth, many husband and wife relations have deteriorated, and more people have divorced? The reason is that the husband and wife can work together to face the hard times together, but cannot live the rich and noble life together. In the past, when people were poor, it was common for them to have simple meals and rough clothes, and they would be satisfied with each other’s care. Now that they are rich, their material life is very rich, but their spirits are empty. In the married life of husband and wife, it is not difficult to love someone, but it is difficult to love each other. Couples who have feelings and true love, in addition to the normal oil, salt, sauce, vinegar tea, eating, drinking, and sleeping, the main thing is to respect and understand each other, and to be able to care, care, care, concern, and care for each other. With me in my heart, and you in my heart, only in this way can we "know the cold and know the heat", and we can be regarded as a true love couple who are closely related to each other. Simply pursuing material life and ignoring the cultivation and management of the emotional level is not destined to be a loving couple. And "Husbands and wives are birds of the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster strikes." In principle, they should not be really good couples. What do you think? Personal opinion, comments are welcome, stay tuned. |