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"Your annual income is 300,000, why let my son buy a wedding house": low-quality marriage is not as good as high-quality single I have wine and tea, if you have a story, come to me. Click "Follow" above, you are my person. 01 Kafka's "Metamorphosis": "To live beautifully, you need a lot of patience, one is not complaining, and the other is not explaining." No one can live beautifully for no reason, no one can succeed casually, that kind of easy The bridges that can rise and rise only exist in people's imaginations, such as the plots of film and television dramas that people imagined. In film and television dramas, the protagonist only needs to change his words to make the protagonist flourish. But the reality can't play like this, especially for people from ordinary backgrounds, if you want to succeed, you need to put in a hundred times of hard work, and sometimes you need to rely on luck. It's a pity that many people don't have enough patience to work hard, always thinking that the pie will fall from the sky, and would rather wait hard than rely on themselves. This kind of unearned person has been looking for a cash cow. To put it bluntly, he only wants to rely on others, not himself. Some people play with scheming in matters of marriage, which is the performance of getting something for nothing. They don't have the ability to live beautifully on their own, they just want to pluck wool from others. 02 The person who almost became my mother-in-law was someone who got something for nothing. When she learned that my annual income was 300,000 yuan, she was moved by evil thoughts. She used to want to let her son get married when she wanted to sell iron. After meeting me, she completely changed. bear. Her wishful thinking worked well, but it didn't meet my expectations. I do have a decent income, but I never thought I'd cover all the expenses myself. It is precisely because my income is not low that I do not want to be counted by anyone. My plan is, how the man spends his money and how he spends it, the important thing is not how much he spends, but whether he has sincerity. In any case, the man himself must have a suite, so as to ensure that each other has fixed assets in their hands. After marriage, they only need to make extra money to spend together, so as to ensure fairness, and even if they divorce in the end, there will be no conflicts. Sadly, my plan was like stepping on my mother-in-law's lungs. She could not wait to swallow me alive: "You earn 300,000 yuan a year, why should my son buy a wedding house?" I don't understand why she would ask such a question question? Why else? I earn my money by myself, and there is no reason to help my in-law's family. You can see how stupid she is from the questions she asks. 03In the end, I gave up the idea of letting their family buy a house, and I also gave up on marriage, because that kind of marriage doesn't make sense to me. Along the way, how difficult it is for me, only I know best. At first, like many people, I was just a nobody, earning a few thousand dollars a month. When I was young, I blindly believed that everything would get better naturally. As a result, I saw that I was going to run three times. I found that I had nothing to do and I didn’t have much savings. Thinking that there are still decades in the future, there will be more and more places to spend money, so I am not calm. , felt that he had to find another way out. I was a monk halfway through and learned a skill. I learned design from others from scratch. Because I worked hard and had a little talent, I learned something and got the recognition of the company where I worked, so I slowly gained a firm foothold. I didn't dare to slack off every moment, for fear that I would be replaced by others, so I persisted step by step until I got an annual salary. The country that was finally conquered must not be handed over to others. Whether it is work or marriage, I will only choose to cooperate with others and not let each other have too many entanglements of interests, otherwise I will definitely suffer a big loss. 04For me, a low-quality marriage is never as good as a high-quality single. In the eyes of others, I have money but no family of my own, and my life is incomplete. But not in my opinion, I am happy with my life and marriage is not a necessity of life. I'd rather be a bachelor unless there's a marriage that would add to my life. If I was still the person who did nothing before, I would definitely care about other people's opinions, and what others said would definitely have an impact on me. But for me now, there are few people who can make me care. All people who are not as good as me are not qualified to dictate my life. In my opinion, they are losers. People who are not as good as me guide me, it is impossible to point out the right one, and it will only mislead me. Since I have earned everything I have, I can't be wrong in continuing to rely on myself. |