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What men really value is to take the initiative to give women these two things Wen丨Love words I am here at half past ten, waiting for the wind and waiting for you. In the love life of two people, many times, what we really care about this person is not the verbal rhetoric, not how expensive big-name bags and luxury watches are for each other, but what should be given to each other what he really wants. Just like in nature, some animals like to eat grass. If you like to eat meat for them, and under the guise of "love", you impose your own ideas on others. This is not called love, it is just self-deception , Self-motivated. You think your so-called "love" will impress the other party and make the other party give up on you. But in reality, he just feels trapped, bound by your compulsive love, and can't even breathe in the same room as you. In fact, the most important thing in love is to know what the other party's real needs are. Only by truly understanding the other party's needs can you make him feel that he is valued. Especially for women, don't foolishly think that he is just stubborn. If a man really loves you, if a man really values you, then he will take the initiative to give you the following two things. A man who really values you will take the initiative to give you a sense of ritual in life. In our daily life, women always seem to need more rituals in life than men. Because women always pay more attention to the quality of their lives than men. When our life is full of little surprises, and every day is full of flowers, we feel very happy and joyful. Therefore, after a man and a woman are together, a woman will always write down every meaningful day, record these days in the calendar, and make this day very ritualistic. Because women attach great importance to the time with him, naturally, they will also think that these times are precious, just like small seashells by the sea, they want to clean them well and store them in their little boxes. Many men do not understand this, they will find it particularly troublesome, and even some men will find it not only unnecessary, but also extravagant. "100 days of acquaintance", "first date anniversary", "first hand-holding anniversary", "official boyfriend and girlfriend anniversary", etc... For a woman, it's all extremely important. Because many women are pursuing their own romance, hoping to temporarily get away from reality for a while and live in a beautiful fantasy in a novel or TV series. So, if a man really loves you and really values you, he will definitely take the initiative to give you a sense of ritual in your life and take the initiative to make your life more romantic. A man who truly values you will fully respect your personal choices. In our lives, there are countless choices, big and small, and many times it seems that these choices are made by us. But in reality, there are so many things in life that we cannot control. We can't decide what we look like, who we are born with, or who we will spend our whole life with. Therefore, there are not many opportunities for each of us to choose for ourselves. The ancients once said: "Do not do to others what you do not want to do to yourself." As long as each of us makes our own choices, respects the choices of others, and does not interfere with each other, it is already very good. Especially in love, don't have this mentality: "Because I'm your man, you should..." Where in the world are there so many "should" or "should not". Such causality itself is not established, and the relationship binding will only make the relationship between two people go further and further. Just like the relationship between Yi Nengjing and Qin Hao, when Qin Hao summoned up the courage to confess to Yi Nengjing, who was 10 years older than him, Yi Nengjing asked, "I'm 45 years old, what if I can't have a baby in the future? You? Would you still be willing to be with me?" Qin Hao immediately replied in a serious tone: "It doesn't matter, if you can't be born, you won't be born." This shows that Qin Hao really loves Yi Nengjing. Because he attaches great importance to Yi Nengjing's ideas and deeply loves Yi Nengjing, he will not interfere with Yi Nengjing's right to make personal choices. Therefore, only a man who will fully respect your personal choices and value all your thoughts will truly value you and truly love you. Conclusion: In the process of pursuing perfect and harmonious love, many women will choose to avoid the problems that exist between two people. But in fact, if you don't say it, he won't know; if you don't express it, he won't know how to cherish this relationship. If a man truly values you and loves you, he will definitely take the initiative to give you a sense of ritual in your life and will fully respect your personal choices. After all, for a person who loves you, your happiness is the most important thing in life. So where does your happiness come from? In fact, it gives you a sense of ritual in life, makes you feel happy in life, and gives you enough respect in love. This is true love! |