The longer the love, the more boring it is? Midlife Marriage 'Catfish Effect': Easy Rescue of Weak Attraction

time:2023-01-29 16:15:11source:novahomeonline.com author:Family diet
The longer the love, the more boring it is? Midlife Marriage 'Catfish Effect': Easy Rescue of Weak Attraction

When I was browsing the Moments the night before, I saw a circle posted by one of my students, the content of which was to celebrate the 20th anniversary of her and her husband. In the photo, my student was smiling like a flower, looking like a little girl, her husband was hugging her, the picture was very sweet. What she sent was: Twenty years later, I am still the little princess you love. It is not difficult to see that they are happy now. In many counseling cases I have dealt with, many women have a common problem. They will come to me to complain, whether they have been together for a long time, and they are used to each other, so there is nothing new, and it has changed from love to love. Become a lover? When we used to be together, I wished to stay together 24 hours a day, sticking each other with myself with glue, but now it's too much to call out a nickname, just "Hey, eh", even married life seems to be for Done to complete the task, without a little passion. Today, the genius is here to chat with you, how to use the catfish effect to make men continue to be fascinated by you? In fact, these situations are quite normal. After all, when the hormones fade, the passion of two people will gradually decrease, and the two sides will not change in any way, so the relationship is almost the same. Some people say that the most terrible thing in a relationship is to quarrel, and to say those hurtful words when quarreling. But I tell you today, the most frightening thing is that the two people have lost their freshness, they have nothing to say, no passion, and they are as plain as water. At this time, the catfish effect will work, make good use of it, and bring some stimulation to your dull feelings. What is the "catfish effect"? Sardines can become moribund in transit, but one person found that placing a live catfish in a sardine tank made the sardines swim with it. By the time they arrived at port, the sardines were still alive and kicking, a phenomenon known as the "catfish effect." Later, the catfish effect refers to the use of means and strategies to stimulate competition in order to activate some enterprises. The same is true of bringing the "catfish effect" into the relationship. The most important thing is to introduce external stimuli to stimulate competitiveness. It is inevitable that the relationship will become dull, but we cannot compromise on this, but make changes. When a man is in the early stages of a relationship, he has already put all his energy on you. When your relationship is gradually stabilized, he will feel that you have been completely controlled by him and can't escape from his palm, so at this time, he will transfer the energy that he previously put on you to other things. For example, he started going to KTV with his brother to sing and drink until midnight, spend more time playing games on weekends, and even like to work overtime. At this time, as I said above, the sardine is staying in his own comfortable environment, and naturally he will not think about other things. To put it simply, at this time, the man feels that you are very safe, he has no sense of crisis, and he can naturally do his thing without worrying about you. At this time, some women will ask, does it make men feel a sense of crisis as long as they go out for dinner with other heterosexuals? Pay attention, let you create a sense of crisis, not let you destroy your relationship with your own hands. The correct way to create a sense of crisis is to do something that will make a man jealous but acceptable on the premise of giving him a sense of security, and let him know that you are also competitive. First of all, you can have your own social circle, and in your social circle, you are very popular, and everyone knows that you love your man. Then you can pretend to unintentionally expose your chat with the opposite sex, be careful, don't be too explicit, and then post a group photo of everyone together in the circle of friends. Of course, this photo can't be of two people alone, and there can't be ambiguous actions, otherwise the man will really doubt it. The next step is to call your male friend before going to bed at night. The tone is normal, which will make the man start to think about things, and feel a little crisis, but the tone of the friend can't be questionable. A man will constantly think about what you have done recently, so that his sense of crisis will come up, and he will naturally remain enthusiastic about you. This method is not to make you unsympathetic, but to use this method to make men care about you more. At the same time, I want to tell everyone that you must grasp the scale, make good use of the catfish effect, create crisis and stimulation appropriately, and make men continue to be fascinated by you.
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