"Your annual salary is one million, and you must buy 5 suites for your mother-in-law's family": If the mother-in-law is greedy, just let her go

time:2023-01-29 08:15:40source:novahomeonline.com author:Small family
"Your annual salary is one million, and you must buy 5 suites for your mother-in-law's family": If the mother-in-law is greedy, just let her go

I have wine and tea, if you have a story, come to me. Click "Follow" above, you are my person. 01 Balzac's "Old Man": "People are imperfect, they are somewhat hypocritical, and when there is a lot of hypocrisy, the fools will cheer the world's corruption." No one is perfect, everyone has shortcomings, in order to cover up their shortcomings, People become hypocritical. For normal people, this is a self-protection mechanism. For abnormal people, hypocrisy is to achieve ulterior motives. Hypocrisy always presents two extremes: the more successful people are, the more hypocritical they are, because they have a lot of hidden secrets, and they will not reveal their sincerity easily; Put on a mask and go trick-or-treating. This kind of problem is very common in the marriage world, especially when the gap between men and women is relatively large, it will show two extremes of hypocrisy. After the unfavorable party regards the better party as a cash cow, they will wear hypocritical clothes. Masks win each other's sympathy. Unfortunately, such things often end in failure. 02 I always heard people say that as long as you work hard, you can succeed. I believe it is true, I have been working hard, but I have not seen any improvement. I feel that the road ahead is very long, and even if I get to the day of success, I will not have many days to live. Later, I seized an opportunity to make money by mistake. I made an annual income of one million without much effort, and I paid more taxes every year than I made before. Only then did I realize that if you want to be successful, hard work is not enough. Yes, but also need chance and luck. However, things like chance and luck are erratic, and they can come and go at any moment. If you can't make a big fight when they come, it's useless to put in ten times the effort when they're gone. As my body felt more and more strained, I realized that the days of making money might be running out. Later, whether the industry is booming and declining, or my own body can't take it, I will sooner or later usher in a stage where I have to stop and cultivate. My physical condition and the entire industry are on the decline almost simultaneously. Under such circumstances, I have to seize the last chance to make a profit, and I don't want to miss the opportunity and regret it. My parents asked me to get married at this time, but I didn't refuse, thinking that I had money anyway, so it would be good to find someone to live with, even if I didn't work after marriage, it would be fine. However, marriage is more complicated than I imagined, especially since I have such good conditions, I will inevitably be calculated by my husband's family. 03 I don't want people to know how much money I have, otherwise I can't bear it no matter if others calculate me or ask me to borrow money. However, even though I was very reserved, I was still pulled out of my bottom line. Especially the person who is going to be my mother-in-law, she can't wait to stay by my side, for fear that the duck she gets will fly away. The purpose of her doing this is obvious, not to like me as a person, but to be jealous of my savings. Even so, I still haven't explained my situation personally, I only said that the marriage house will be bought by me, without spending the money of my husband's family. My plan is that after everything is done, I will take the money and spend a leisurely life without worrying about eating and drinking. It will be very easy. Sadly, it is impossible for me to live such an easy life as I wish. My mother-in-law was dissatisfied that I only bought one house, and wanted to use my money to buy a house for each of their family: "You earn a million dollars a year, and you must buy 5 houses for the mother-in-law's family!" I said she was crazy about the house, she As if she hadn't heard, she continued to instill in me her tattered concept: "You and my son are together because of fate. In this case, you must pull our family in order to keep this fate. If you have money but don't want to. Spending money for our family, God can't stand it!" If I did what she asked, I would spend almost all of my money. Her greed won't stop there, if I give her the impression of being a bully, she'll definitely keep plotting against me until I'm drained. So I refused, I could have a good life, why should I sacrifice for my husband's family? I am married, not poverty alleviation! Besides, it is not necessary for me to get married. After getting married, it is better to be a single noble. 04 Seeing that I have turned my face, my mother-in-law may have realized that she was in a hurry for quick success, so she begged me to forgive her with kind words, and swore to God that everything would be done according to my requirements, and she would never ask me to buy a house for my husband's family again. I didn't look back, partly because it wasn't worth it, and partly because it wasn't necessary. I admit that I'm a little off and I admit that I have a sense of superiority, and I don't think it's a shameful gesture, but I think it's a giveaway that comes with my success. My mother-in-law is not the only person I deal with, why don't I turn my back on others? Did I deliberately target her? Did I deliberately put on a stinky air for her to see? Obviously not! I turned against her because she was too greedy and only wanted to plot against me. When I meet such a mother-in-law, of course I want her to get out of my face, why should I greet the person who is plotting against me with a smile? People can be hypocritical in order to protect themselves, but they cannot be hypocritical in order to calculate others. The fruits of other people's success belong to others only. You can't justify yourself just because you have failed in your life. Otherwise, the more you push step by step, the more others will build walls, and it is impossible for your greed to have a chance to succeed.
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