The elderly father sighed: What is the way out for the "poor second generation"? Is there any hope for succession?

time:2023-01-29 author:Daily life
The elderly father sighed: What is the way out for the "poor second generation"? Is there any hope for succession?

The joy of getting a child in old age is no less than other blessings in life. Nowadays, young people's concept of marriage has undergone great changes unconsciously. They choose to marry later and have children later, or even not get married and infertile, and they will go through celibacy to the end. In the eyes of the elders, this behavior of giving up childbirth is incomprehensible in any way. As the saying goes, there are three kinds of unfilial piety, and having no descendants is the greatest. When parents are old, don't they expect their children to live?

Older father sighs: What is the way out for the "poor second generation"? Is there any hope for succession?

A father felt endless sadness from the inside out after many unsuccessful attempts to get married. Seeing that his son was about to turn 30, other relatives' children of the same age were married and had children, but his own son was left alone. Especially during Chinese New Year and festivals, the lonely atmosphere at home makes me even more unbearable. Every time when it comes to the issue of marriage, the son is like a hedgehog, spreading his thorns to protect himself. What do young people think today? Helpless 1: I am getting old and my health is getting worse. This father was a little late when he got married and had children. The reason for this phenomenon was not because he was picky, but because the conditions at home were really bad. Few women are willing to marry themselves. In the end, I finally got married, and I am really grateful to Dade. Now, his son has also embarked on his own path. I don't know if it is because the family atmosphere that he created for him stimulated him and made him lose confidence in the family? Or because his relationship with his wife is not very good, he has already looked down on everything. But no matter what the reason is, he still can't accept the cruel fact that his son has no idea about getting married, and he doesn't want to get married, let alone inheriting the lineage with his grandson! It's an unattainable luxury! Moreover, now that his health is getting worse and worse, even after his son gets married and has children, when he needs to contribute, he really can't guarantee that he can help. What should I do if I become a burden on my son instead? Helpless 2: My own financial situation is worrying. Nowadays, if you want to live a prosperous life in life, the efforts of young people alone are not enough. Unless it is a very outstanding talent, it is possible to reach the pinnacle of life alone. But to become a talent, the support of all aspects of the family is also essential. In this way, it is not so much a fair competition as a "fight father". If you have a dad with a lot of money, you can get things that ordinary people can't get in their entire lives without breaking a sweat. What about fairness? And when this father talks about the help he has given his son, he looks embarrassed, because from the beginning to the end, the family environment he has created is poor, whether it is money or ability, he needs his son to work hard, and he is pitiful for the child. In the same way, if my son wants to talk about marriage, he is really stretched out. Whether it is buying a wedding house or betrothal money, he can't get much. Go away? Helpless 3: Not getting married and inheriting the lineage is a self-contradictory existence. Although the external conditions are full of many tests, in the final analysis, it is the son's own thinking that has a problem. He has no idea of ​​getting married at all, and even the object of conversation is immune. Such a situation cannot be accomplished in a short period of time. But things have become like this, what can I do? What should I do if I talk too much, anger my son, and don't take care of myself in the future? But if I don't say it, I can't. If I let my son leave it alone, I can't bear it. In addition, I have always insisted on letting my son get married and have children, isn't it still for the sake of inheriting the family? The incense of my family cannot be broken in this generation! Otherwise, when you wait a hundred years from now, what face will you have to face your ancestors? After all, my son is just making such a decision right now. When he gets older, he will definitely regret it!

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