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How old is the difference between a second child and a second child? This age difference is the happiest, and the parents I meet are blessed Wen|Wener With the opening of the two-child and three-child policy, there are fewer and fewer families with only one child. Many couples start having a second or third child. Two children are the pursuit of most families, and children are not alone. Having one more child at home is not a trivial matter, but affects all aspects of the future. Therefore, when planning to have a second child, responsible parents will take all factors into consideration. For example, the family's economic situation, the number of people with children, and the age difference between the two children. Yes, the age difference between the two children also matters. Having two children born at the right age will make it easier for parents and reduce a lot of family conflicts. How old is the first child better than the second child? This age difference is the happiest, and the parents I meet are blessed. 4-6 years old is the best age difference In my opinion, 4-6 years old is the best age difference between two children. If you are less than 3 years old, no matter whether the mother has a natural birth or a caesarean section, the damage to the mother's body is very large. When the second child is born, the mother's body may not recover well. In addition, the two children are young and ignorant, and they all need the mother's attentive care. Even if someone helps to take care of the baby, the hardest is the mother. Not to mention many families, the older generation is unwilling to help, the men are often not at home, and the family is all supported by the mother alone. Taking care of two children of the same age is hard work. Moreover, if the two children are three years apart, the junior high school entrance examination and the major college entrance examination will require parents to worry about it. At that time, both parents and children will be under great pressure. Then the child is 4-year-old. First of all, the mother's body has recovered very well after so many years of recuperation, and the risk of re-pregnancy and childbirth is relatively small. With the second child, there is also a good body and sufficient energy to take care of the second child. In addition, the eldest is in kindergarten, and the time spent at home is less, and the mother can free herself to take care of the second child and the family. It is not so hard. The most important thing is that the bosses of this age group are already sensible. Not only has the basic self-care ability, but also some basic household chores do not need parents to worry about it, and they will not think about competing with younger brothers and sisters for favor. On the contrary, under the education and guidance of their parents, they can also become their right-hand assistants, helping to take care of their younger siblings. In this way, the relationship between the two children will be better, the family atmosphere will be better, and the parents will have more peace of mind. Of course, if the age difference between the two children is too large, for example, the eldest is over 10 years old, it is best not to regenerate. At this time, most mothers have become elderly mothers, and they will suffer even more when they become pregnant and give birth to children. Even if the child is born safely, the mother will not be able to take care of the child. The physical damage and the hard work of taking care of the child will accelerate the aging of the mother. . The most important thing is that the age difference between the children is too large, there is a generation gap, and the life trajectories from childhood are different. In addition, if the parents do not handle it properly, it will cause conflicts in the children. [Topic discussion: What is the age difference between your two children? 】Senior nursery teacher, psychological counselor, author of original parenting comics, welcome to pay attention to [Little Wife], you can find the answers to family education, mental health, child development, and fashion education you want to know. |