People are getting old, don't help these kinds of things anymore

time:2023-01-29 15:30:20source:novahomeonline.com author:Unexpected situation
People are getting old, don't help these kinds of things anymore

After we retire, we have a lot of free time, and we have endless time every day. When something happens to our relatives and friends, some enthusiastic elderly people will be very enthusiastic to help. This help also depends on what it is, isn't it possible to help with any busyness? Some things were busy and didn't help, and they caused a lot of trouble for themselves. When the elderly want to help these things, they still have to think twice! 1. Helping young people introduce objects Helping young people introduce objects is a good thing, after all, it is the beauty of adults! It's just that things like this are done well, and others don't say anything. If things are not done very well, they will attract complaints, thinking that this matter is your matchmaking, adding unnecessary trouble to others and being complained by others. Therefore, the elderly should not easily introduce objects to others for matchmaking. Except for immediate family members in their own family. 2. Don't help others to look after the children. Children in every family are baby bumps. When playing with friends, if you need to ask you to help look after the children for a while, the old people should refuse it directly! When someone else's child has left his grandparents, you can't take care of it. It's not appropriate to say something heavy or light. Help others to look after the children, if there is a bump, and it falls, you will blame you for not having the children take good care of them. Besides, after retirement, I am old and my legs and feet are not easy. Can I run like a kid who is jumping around? Therefore, when someone asks you to take care of the child, you should directly refuse it. It is better than if something goes wrong with the child later, and you will feel sorry if you offend others. 3. Don't lend your old house to others to live in. Many elderly people have their own old properties, and no one lives in them and does not rent them out. Some kind-hearted elderly people will lend their houses to relatives and friends with poorer conditions to live in. "It's easy to ask God, but it's hard to let God go." If you lend your house to others to live in, when one day you need to use the house, asking others to move out will offend people. If you have an old house at home, you can rent it out or let it sit idle, but don’t lend it to others to live in.
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