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Those who still want to find a wife in their later years have a very clear purpose. "Twilight Love" is simply a pit. Text / Good Pregnant Sister Two days ago, I saw a news: A man in Shaanxi, shortly after the death of his wife, was introduced to a woman at dusk. Coincidentally, the two had known each other many years ago. In order to marry the woman, the man transferred 150,000 yuan to her son. He even claimed that "I liked her 38 years ago, but when she was married, I gave up. The 150,000 yuan is compensation for her suffering for more than 30 years." But not all reunions are fate. Later, the marriage between the two was not completed, and the man asked for the return of the dowry money. As a result, the other party has already moved the household registration away, and no one can be found at all. After several years, he finally found out about the other party. To get the money back, he eventually took the mother and son to court. The woman argued that the 150,000 yuan was given voluntarily by the man, and after so many years, the statute of limitations has passed. In the end, the court held that the two were not married, but had been together for a year, and the woman had to refund 130,000 yuan. Tsk tsk, my wife died less than a hundred days ago, and the bones were not cold, so I quickly found a home. In the end, I didn't expect that the white moonlight that I was thinking about in my heart had turned into this kind of appearance, and it was estimated that the man would be heartbroken enough. However, this is the reality. There are too few people who are really willing to give their true love to the romantic-sounding twilight love. Sometimes even full of calculations and deceit. But then again, those who still want to find a wife in their later years have a very clear purpose. Looking for someone to accompany, not alone A marriage and love platform once conducted a survey on Dusk Love and found that because there are no children or children are left alone after they start a family, and they are far away from social life after retirement, 30% of middle-aged and elderly people will have strong feelings. loneliness. Therefore, if young people are dating for their desires, then middle-aged and elderly blind dates are more about having a partner. There is no element of love, as long as you can treat each other like a guest, someone can talk, and someone can find out in time when you close your eyes and can't wake up. When some people realize their emptiness and loneliness, they will have crooked thoughts. Under the guise of Twilight Love, he was thinking about how to defraud them of their money and property. Need someone to take care of them and want to reduce the burden and worry of their children. Of course, there are also many people who do not want to be a burden to their children. In order to relieve their children's burdens and worries and relieve their children, they want to find a wife and start a new life. And men who hold this idea are in the majority. They are often very realistic, and they all want to find people who are younger than themselves, in good health, who can take care of themselves, who are married and have no burdens, and who have pensions. What's even more funny is that they can't accept the other party's money, and they don't want the other party to ask for love. But they want to find someone who can give their sincerity, work hard without complaining, and don't care too much. In their opinion, people who can take care of themselves in their later years without spending money or spending less money are not materialistic, have no utilitarian intentions, and are more suitable for spending the rest of their lives together. And more realistic than that, sometimes you do your best to serve, but when your remarried wife dies, you get kicked out of the house. I know an aunt who remarried and found a wife 6 years older than her. The two had been married for almost ten years, but the man suddenly fell ill and died. The man's son called her children directly and asked her to be picked up. In order to avoid her attention of hitting the house, the family even changed the door lock. This auntie is also heartbroken. She has been a free babysitter for nearly ten years, and in the end, nothing has been left behind. I really don't know what she was trying to do. Finally, I want to say that no matter how old you are, if you choose to remarry, you must keep your eyes open. Especially when you meet someone who is unwilling to give anything, but always wants to get what you want from others, you must withdraw decisively. Especially in the evening love, don't have too good fantasies. Halfway couples, especially such derailed couples, rarely have true feelings. To put it in a bad way, if you are dead or sick, you should go back to your own home. At the crux of the matter, you have to rely on your own children. Senior nursery teacher, psychological consultant, author of original parenting comics, welcome to follow [Good Pregnancy], you can find the answer to scientific parenting, maternal care, baby health, and child growth and development you want to know! |