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In-law relationships I often hear some remarks about the bad relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and there are many articles on the Internet that write negative energy articles about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The most frequently mentioned suggestions by netizens about maintaining the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are as follows, but they are all evasive. When dealing with problems, sometimes communication is the best policy. 1. Living separately With the suggestion of netizens, I also thought of living with my parents-in-law and my mother-in-law publicly, and my will was still very firm a few days before the marriage. My in-laws are retired, and it's been a good few months since they came home. After buying the food, help us to prepare breakfast and lunch, and we will have hot rice to eat when we get home after get off work. Saves us a lot of time for a good rest. In addition to calling us to eat, they rarely interfere with us. They all have their own hobbies, fishing and watching TV in their free time. 2. If the family can afford a babysitter without a baby, the in-laws do not want to bring it. The in-laws help with the baby. On the one hand, we can relieve our stress, and on the other hand, we can take a rest. You must know that you are full-time with children, your income will be reduced, your energy will be low, and mental stress will also follow. When it comes to bringing a baby, the in-laws may have some ideas in their time, but for novice parents, they are definitely experienced. It is a blessing to have my in-laws to help with the baby. 3. Don't treat your mother-in-law as your own mother. Personally, I think this is the most pertinent piece of advice. However, very few people can treat their mother-in-law as their mother, so they will relatively reduce their expectations and will not go to their mother-in-law to treat themselves as their own daughters. As long as everyone does not live in peace and respect each other, they are qualified mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Before, I was afraid of marriage, not my husband, but the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Now don't be afraid. If you communicate more, of course, you will encounter difficulties in communication. But life is like that, there are difficulties everywhere. |