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How to get along with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law: praise more, sweeter mouth and lower body : There is an old saying, "There is no room for two women in the kitchen." Most mothers-in-law do not like daughters-in-law who are too capable at home. A daughter-in-law who is more capable than them often makes her feel that she wants to replace her importance. It is too oppressive, but it is not as pleasant as a clumsy hand and a sweet mouth. If she can't do it, she will become a waste in the eyes of her mother-in-law, and she will secretly feel sorry for her son. In the face of capable old people, if you want to be capable, it is best to play outside, not to play big swords in small homes! A wise daughter-in-law understands the power of praise, the power of good words, a sweeter mouth and a lower body, so that she can win a harmonious relationship with her mother-in-law. How to get along with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law: praise more, sweeter mouth, and lower body Yuzhi is very observant. When she got married, she found out that her mother-in-law didn't like her sister-in-law very much. Sister-in-law is actually a conscientious housewife, and she can be called a virtuous person. She is simple and thrifty without being exaggerated. She observed it and found a fact: my sister-in-law loves to compete with her mother-in-law too much. My mother-in-law loves to cook, and my sister-in-law will deliberately cook the same dishes as her. In front of her mother-in-law, she will deliberately ask if the child is delicious. As if secretly wanting to compete with her mother-in-law. The more she wanted to win her mother-in-law's admiration, the more her mother-in-law was angry. Yuzhi switched to another strategy, determined to be a flattering daughter-in-law. She found that her mother-in-law lacked nothing but praise. She kept saying that she hoped to have the same cooking skills as her mother-in-law. When she eats new dishes made by her mother-in-law, she is always the first to make a sound of admiration. This trick really worked, making the mother-in-law think she was from the same country, but the sister-in-law was not. Yuzhi's most pleasing words to her mother-in-law were: "Mom, no matter how tired you are at work, when you come home and eat your cooking, you will feel so comforted." Her mother-in-law laughed until her mouth could not close. She would also say that she was stupid and could not do well at home, which aroused her mother-in-law's sympathy. Sometimes she would come to her house while she was at work to help her take out the trash and organize things. Although they live in the same building, each small family lives in different layers. From time to time, Yuzhi will go downstairs to greet her mother-in-law, send some fruit snacks, and listen to her mother-in-law talk about the content of the series she likes to watch. Although it is only a few minutes, her mother-in-law also very happy. The elder sister-in-law, who lives in the same building, doesn't understand this truth, and she still compares herself with her mother-in-law, and also grumbles with her husband that her mother-in-law treats their sister-in-law unfairly. There is an old saying, "There is no room for two women in the kitchen." Most mothers-in-law do not like daughters-in-law who are too capable at home. Compared with them, a capable daughter-in-law often makes her feel that she wants to replace her importance. It is too oppressive, but it is not as sweet as a sweet mouth. In fact, two women get along so often that there will inevitably be frictions. Most mothers-in-law are not easy to like the daughter-in-law who often spends time with her under the same roof. Always bumping into each other, rubbing and bumping are inevitable. If she can't do it, she will become a waste in the eyes of her mother-in-law, and she will secretly feel sorry for her son; even if she can do it, she will still be regarded as a "rice bug" by her mother-in-law. What's so amazing? In the face of capable old people, if you want to be competent, it is best to play outside, not to play big knives in a small home! |